Sunday, May 13, 2012


(This is from an original blogpost that I wrote a while back that seemed appropriate today!)

Wouldn't you like to be faster than a speeding bullet?...more powerful than a locomotive? to leap tall buildings in a single bound? Sounds pretty good to me!  What about the ability to cling to walls?...or to have super human speed, agility, and strength? These things would certainly come in handy most days at my house. I can think of many times in my life where being able to stretch my body into different shapes and lengths, or being able to become invisible, or to fly would've been incredibly helpful. I can't do these things because I am just a human. I am mortal. I walk on the ground. I can be hurt, and one day I will die. I don't possess any of the characteristics of Superman, Spiderman, Mr. Fantastic, The Invisible Woman or any other of a long list of super heroes. I guess that makes me regular...nothing special...nothing super.

Everyone loves super heroes. Men want to be them, and women want to date them. They give us a glimpse of greatness...of what it would be like to be better than everyone make a difference in the world. They make us feel safe and give us hope for a better tomorrow. When Lois Lane falls, Superman is always there to catch her. When she is in trouble, he saves her from the bad guys.
My kids always need a band aid to make them feel better when they're hurt...or think they are. We go through band aids like you wouldn't believe in my house. Whether it's a scratch or a cut...bleeding or barely noticable...a band aid is ALWAYS a neccessity. The only thing that can calm their cries or heal their hurts faster, is a kiss. As a Mom, my kisses can dry tears and soothe pain. It's like magic. I started thinking about this one night as I held my daughter in my arms and kissed her stubbed toe. Yes, I really did kiss her toe with my lips. Her crying got quieter until it went away, and soon she was back up and running around. She still had a tear sitting on her cheek, but she had a smile on her face and her toe, the one that was ruined for ever, was working just fine from pain. For a moment in time, I held a super power of sorts...the power to calm. I made her feel safe, just like Lois Lane feels when Superman cradles her in his arms and places her feet carefully back on the ground.

When one makes a list of super heroes, there are certain men that come to mind first. I always think of Superman, Spiderman, and Batman. Those are my top three. Until, I started to think about what powers they each possess, I had never realized that while Superman and Spiderman have numerous and specific superpowers, Batman does not. Batman fought crime and saved people just like the other guys, but he did not use special, super human powers. He made use of what he had. He used his wealth and his intelligence...his love of technology, his detective skills, and his physical abilities to accomplish many of the same things his fellow super heroes did.
This leads me to the thought, that in our own way, we can all be some way. A mother is a super hero to the child that she comforts with her kisses...that she catches as they fall...not from a tall building, but as they take their first steps. The businessman that stops on the highway, rolls up his sleeves, and changes a tire for the woman with a van full of small children, even though it's hot and he's tired, and it will make him late for dinner, is a superhero. The doctor that heals the patient...that saves his life for yet another day, is no less of a hero, than if he were Superman. It doesn't take real superpowers. It takes using the talents that we each have the best of our ability...for the good of others. I can...I am...I will be...a super hero today.


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  2. I am not a Mom, but I sure do respect what Moms do, every day! In reference to your third paragraph though-about how your kisses help ease your children's pain...I learned about this my first semester in Nursing School so I had to look it up. In the 1960's researchers looked for alternative treatment for pain besides pharmaceuticals.Something called the "Gate Control Theory" was discovered and proved that stress and anxiety had direct effects on how long or how much pain people felt. The thalamus (small part of the brain) opens and closes in relationship to pain,stress and anxiety. So, it will open when a person injures themselves as they are almost always anxious/stressed as well. I'm sure you know all about endorphins, but they are released when someone experiences something pleasurable, calming, or soothing (i.e. kisses, massaging,laughter etc.). This in turn causes a blockage of pain to the central nervous system. So, it makes complete sense that your kisses can take pain away from your children-and there is science to back you up too! The human body is quite amazing...and so is the Love of a Mom-Happy Mother's Day!

  3. Happy Mother's Day, Marsha.

    Brilliant post.......and quite frankly, I believe us "Moms" are superheros...and no one will tell me otherwise. :)

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